How to ‘Mind Your Manners’ as an Advisor
Financial advisors are not immune from sticky, tricky etiquette dilemmas. Now comes “Mind Your Manners: How to Be Your Best Self in Any Situation,” by Sara Jane Ho, bringing no-nonsense tips and sassy quips to what can be a musty subject. In an interview, we ask Ho, host of the Emmy-nominated Netflix series “Mind Your Manners,” if it’s OK for financial advisors to use humor with clients. “Absolutely,” says Ho, 38, who began as an investment banking analyst before making a sharp career turn and opening China’s first finishing school. “But if it’s dirty humor, maybe not, unless it’s contextual.” Her book is packed with such pointers on polite behavior as “Don’t lick your knife.” In addition, she emphasizes the importance of resourcefulness and relates how “reciprocal obligation” can help advisors. In the interview, Ho, who earned an MBA at Harvard Business School, discusses how to keep a widow from leaving a couple’s financial advisor upon the husband’s death and the worst thing a salesperson can do, especially when trying for a good first impression. Here are highlights of our conversation: “I’m not Mother Teresa. I’m Miss Manners with a touch of Machiavelli,” you write. Please elaborate. I’m not pretending...